All I can say is, it can wait!
Signing up for an online dating site may seem like a great idea at first but…
Here are some reasons why it most definitely may not be.
A lot of people aren't looking for relationships... if you know what I mean... Bow chicka wow wow.
Every time you come across a seemingly nice person or receive a message from any person, one way or the other they insinuate sex, bring up sex, ask for sex, want sex, need sex, sex sex sex
It starts to become more of an online hookup site rather than dating site.
A lot of people aren't mature enough of for a relationship.
Every person you seem to come across seems immature and not ready for an actual relationship. “SexyBigDxck1” “Bea$t@69” or “H0RNY48008I3Z” to name a few.
When it comes to [REAL]-ationships you have to be mentally mature and ready for them, which a majority of the people on there aren’t.
This leads to the third and final reason.
You may not be ready!
When you leave a relationship that is toxic, you walk away from it feeling a mix of emotions empty, hurt, exhausted, defeated. Your first thoughts may be to fill that void by trying to force friendships or by finding a new person to date.
This definitely isn’t the answer.
When you’re fresh out of any relationship, whether it be a happy one or an unhealthy one, you need time.
Timing is everything.
As hard as it may be to admit we need time to heal, “time2mend”, time to grow, time to get to know ourselves before jumping into the next chapter of intimacy and partnership with someone.
So if you’ve just gotten out of a relationship and want to sign up for online dating remember to ask yourself if you are ready.
Just think, “Is ‘H0RNY48008I3Z’ someone I really want to spend the rest of my life with?”
Anything great in life takes time.
Nothing that’s good comes easy, and things that come easy aren’t always good.